Rebecca Adlington and Frankie Boyle

I wrote the below in 2013 when Rebecca Adlington was appearing on I’m A Celebrity Get Me Out of Here. Today she was writing in the Sunday Times about how she has come to terms with her looks and the Twitter abuse she received at the time:



WHAT kind of a shallow world are we living in when a super-talented, double Olympics gold medal winner is full of self-doubt because she doesn’t look like a super model?

Rebecca Adlington has been subjected to the kind of abuse on social media that’s normally reserved for corrupt politicians, hypocritical celebrities and Piers Morgan (who positively relishes it!).

And the comments are all about the way she looks. There’s hardly one about her incredible achievements.

Let’s get this straight. She might not, like 99.9 per cent of us, stop traffic when she walks down the street, but she’s a lovely girl with a perfectly normal face and an incredible athlete’s body.

She’s not stick thin, she hasn’t had her boobs inflated to impossible proportions, she hasn’t had a nose job, facelift or liposuction.

It’s easy to say she should toughen up and rise above the comments but if, day after day, you are subjected to personal abuse and told how ugly you are, there can hardly be a woman in the world who wouldn’t be affected.

It all began when comedian Frankie Boyle made a “joke ” (I use the word loosely) about Adlington’s looks on TV programme Mock The Week. He followed this up with another scathing comment about her on Twitter.

I refuse to repeat these comments but they were hurtful and abusive. Not only that, they were inaccurate.

But they opened the floodgates to every mean-minded Twitter idiot who thought they would follow suit. It’s that mob mentality where because someone else has done it, it somehow gives you “permission” to do it too.

Adlington is at the moment appearing in reality TV show, I’m A Celebrity…Get Me Out Of Here. She broke down in tears, admitting she felt “very, very insecure” about her looks because of all the abuse she gets.

And can you imagine what these people who criticise her look like? I very much doubt if a George Clooney lookalike is sitting in front of his laptop tapping out this particular brand of moronic abuse.
I imagine some crotch-scratching idiot with a beer gut, hiding behind his anonymity because he is an inadequate bully.

Or a spotty emotionally-stunted adolescent who would be petrified to be in the company of a high-achieving woman.

Not that all of them are men. Women, too, have joined in the abuse. Again, bully is the word that springs to mind.

I find it depressing that after nearly 50 years of fighting for equality, women like Rebecca Adlington are still judged on their looks and not on their personality or achievements. It’s a sad society that values a  surgically enhanced reality TV star or supermodel more than a medal-winning athlete.

Not that there’s anything wrong with being beautiful. Good for you if you have the “pretty gene” but there are other qualities that are equally important.

As for Frankie Boyle, if he were judged on his looks and not his talent, he would never be allowed out in public. And as the father of a young daughter, he should be ashamed of himself.




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8 comments:

  1. That is sad that he is the father of a young daughter and is making fun of someone's looks. I don't like comedians that need to make fun of others to get laughs, that is not comedy to me.

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  2. This is one reality show I do not watch and I have never heard of either of these "celebrities," but if this young lady walked by my dinner table, Mrs. C would kick me under the table for taking a second glance. She is a very attractive lady.

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  3. I'm glad I don't follow Twitter. It seems to be a platform that invites bullying and our current president makes it fashionable to do it. I, too, have never heard of this TV show or these two celebrities. It's very sad that such an accomplished woman has been made to feel less than she really is.

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  4. I agree with Jean on why we are suddenly allowed to mock someone on twitter or the like. We have been given license by our leaders that it is perfectly all right to say anything hurtful and the anonymity makes it easy.

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  5. It's gotten horrible with Twitter and the like. I think most of these morons are projecting--attributing the things they find lacking in themselves to others. And they have this hole of hate in them that the need to put it onto someone else.

    I can list all the reasons why. But it doesn't help those who are getting the abuse. Is there another group out there sending her messages of support. That's what we need to do when this happens. We need to respond with kindness towards the one getting the abuse.

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  6. I just don't get it. There's nothing at all wrong with her looks that I can see, and all those moronic twitterers should take a good look in their own mirrors. For that matter, Rebecca herself should be able to see for herself that she hasn't suddenly sprouted a huge green nose or something and ignore the twitterers. She could be thinking, "they don't even know me" and just get on with her life.
    Sounds harsh, but far too many people get all broken up believing what total strangers say about them on farcebook or twitter or other social media. Where is their own self respect? Their self esteem? Surely they weren't raised without?

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  7. Mr Boyle has a foul mouth and a very cruel form of humour. I've only watched him once - never again.

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  8. What a rotten world sometimes. Ugh... I remember some super talented tennis ball player who QUIT her beloved sport following social media abuse. Crazy days. As for being 'woke', youtube comment creators of a more libertarian bent are saying that social justice warrior stances make for unsuccessful movies. In short, studios 'get woke and go broke'. I found that amusing, if pathetic. We are not unique snowflakes, nor should we abuse others to make our shallow selves feel better. ~gets off soapbox~ Be well, my dear!

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