Foaming At The Mouth




I am somewhat annoyed.

What has rattled this normally placid person's cage? It's the vast number of angry people out there, that's what. And I mean they are REALLY angry.

I know people whose default setting is permanent peevishness but it’s gone beyond that. Look on the internet and you will find video upon video of people losing it. They are trolling on Twitter, furious on Facebook, incensed on Instagram, wicked as a snake on WhatsApp and snapping on Snapchat.

I have a wide circle of friends of all political persuasions. Lovely people. Lovely, that is until some political issue rears its ugly head. Then many of these perfectly pleasant people metamorphose into ranting ideologues completely unable to tolerate another person's point of view.

My Facebook pages are full of vitriol.  I expect people to be passionate about their political beliefs but some of the posts transcend that. People "de-friend" others right, left and centre for being politically too right, too left or too centre. 

They regurgitate fake news and unsubstantiated statistics in the manner of Moses descending the mountain with tablets of stone.

I read a post and think to myself, "That can't be right, surely?" Then, just a couple of minutes’ research show that the statistics quoted or the story shared are fabrications. Or they shout FAKE NEWS at everything, fake or not. Why don't people check things before sharing them? See, now I'm angry too.

Then there are the cyber-bully trolls who viciously attack anyone who doesn't share their narrow view of the world. God help you  if you are blessed with less than average looks, any argument you put forward will be immediately nullified because you are fat, old, bald, have a big nose, whatever. If you are a woman in the public eye you could be threatened with the most heinous of "punishments" from rape to murder for having the temerity to offer up an opinion.

Who is this army of cowardly judgemental people with so much time on their hands they can be bothered to write a tweet or fill in a comment form to write something inane or just plain nasty? Who sits down to write horrible things about people they have never met? It's the only time I feel sorry for celebrities who come in for blistering attacks because of the way they look or some inadvertent slip of the tongue.



The sound of teeth gnashing and the sight of veins popping assault my senses daily. I am metaphorically covered head to toe in spit spewing from the mouths of the splenetic.

Turn on your TV and you will see angry people shouting at angry people. Look in your local newspaper or read the local groups on Facebook and you will see people incandescent with rage because there is a van parked with one wheel on the pavement or their packet of 50 turkey twizzlers contains 49.

Anger knows no religion, social class, political persuasion or gender. Various Christians, Jews and Muslims are angry at people who don't share their views. The poor are angry at the rich for not sharing enough, the rich are angry at the poor for taking too much. Political parties are angrily tearing themselves apart. The jobless are angry they are unemployed and the employed are angry they are being exploited. Men are angry at women and women are angry at men. Reasoned debate has been replaced by clashing horns, the winner the person who can shout the loudest.

Of course, not all anger is bad. There is positive anger when we rage at the injustices of the world and vow to do something about it.

But you have to pick your battles. Walk a mile in the other man's moccasins. And chill. Just chill.

  • (I first published something similar to this a couple of years ago but have now rewritten and, hopefully (!) improved.)




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12 comments:

  1. I have un-followed a few friends and even relatives as their constant anger and opinions threatened to end a real friendship. I have lost friends over this kind of crap, partly my fault for feeding into it. I now try my best to avoid "controversial" topics. The anger on social media is one thing, what scares me is I am fearful of expressing an opinion in the real world where real people beat the snot out of real people for holding honest opinions. I just try and zip it.

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    1. I agree totally. I think the ability to be anonymous on social media has encouraged people to be horrible. Thankfully, it's a minority but still worrying.

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  2. Oh yes, the anger is palpable.

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    1. It is. I find it really worrying sometimes and want to say, "Calm down or you'll have a heart attack!"

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  3. I somehow manage to ignore most of the anger out there. Not being on social media helps, knowing that a lot of people are just venting helps too. I worry about the viciousness behind some of the anger, but there's nothing I can do about it. I do know that the anger isn't directed at me personally, most anger is fear based and that's just "everyone" fearing for themselves and their futures.

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    1. That's a really good attitude to have. I've started to use social media a lot less recently.

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  4. I have trouble understanding why some people can believe the most outlandish things and pass them on to others without checking. It's a real problem in our society and I don't see that stopping any time soon. I've had to take a couple of people out of my news feed on Facebook for that reason. If I want to read dozens of fake news articles every day I'm capable of finding my own, thank you very much.

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    1. I agree! I'm forever gently telling my Facebook friends, actually this isn't right and putting a link to one of those de-bunking sites like Snopes www.snopes.com

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  5. Every day I moan at least once but usually more often,"What is wrong with people?" Not only the anger but the violent acts against eachother and mindbogglingly, those against children or animals.
    It is overwhelming. We are losing our grip.

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    1. I know. It's not that I never get angry (I wish!) but the scale of it is worrying. Words are dreadful but those violent acts even worse.

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  6. Well done. I always joke that hey should put happy pills in the water supply- maybe that is not such a bad idea.

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    1. Good idea. Maybe I can buy some of those happy pills on the internet. 😊 😊 I know a few people who could do with them!

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