Around My Kitchen Table: August 2021

Squirrel Armageddon

I love animals, of course. Who, apart from the odd psychopath, doesn't?

I love my cat Toffee (who, incidentally, has written a book), I let dogs sniff my hand and then pet them - if they don't look as if they're about to bite it off. I share Facebook videos of hippopotami and humpback whales doing what hippopotami and humpback whales do in the wild. My heart swells when a hedgehog deigns to cross my garden.

See? I love animals.

However... one word. Squirrels.

Yes, they're floofy and furry with big fluffy tails. But...

Don't let the little bastards sucker you in. They swoop, like ninjas in the night, and nibble on things they have no business nibbling on. Like electric cables, causing a power cut so you can't shower in the morning or make the cup of coffee that's the only thing standing between you and temporary narcolepsy.

I have a theory that squirrels are really the spawn of the devil. My proof? THEY DIDN'T GET ELECTROCUTED. I rest my case. They sat in the trees with a squirrelly glint in their eyes, mocking my bleary-eyed attempts to rouse a man with a van from the electricity company, only getting off their fluffy butts to pinch bird seed from the bird table - yes, taking food from the mouths of God's innocent little creatures.

What's next? Armageddon? I pray they never join forces with those other spawns of the devil, the seagulls who pinch your chips while you're sitting on the seafront at Torquay. If they do, the end of the world is nigh.

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Losing Weight...Or Not

I've been trying to lose weight and have turned to the internet for help. The main suggestion seems to be 'shut your huge gob and get up off your fat ass'. I paraphrase.

Several people, though, said that writing down everything you eat helps you understand your eating habits and patterns. Okey doke. Sounds logical. So I've made a start:

7am I fill the old man's lunchbox and eat several chunks of ham while making his ham and tomato sandwiches. Cut him a slice of cake…and cut myself a small sliver to make sure it's not gone stale. It hasn't. Put in a packet of potato chips which reminds me there is half a packet of Cheesy Wotsits in the cupboard. Check they haven't gone stale too. They haven't.

Breakfast: I skip breakfast as I'm not hungry. Decide stomach must be shrinking.

11am I'm STARVING. Can't decide whether to have a very late breakfast or a very early lunch. Decide to call it brunch and eat two slices of buttered toast and peanut butter. While getting the bread out of the cupboard I spot half a packet of biscuits. They can count as "pudding". Do people have pudding at breakfast? They do now.

11.45am While working at my desk I spot half a packet of peanuts on my desk and decide I need the protein as "brain food".

Lunch I'm not hungry. Stomach must be REALLY shrinking, although sadly not noticeably so.

2pm I'm STARVING. Raid the fridge and find the rest of the ham, a hard boiled egg, more salad and some dried up cheese. Microwave a jacket potato. It's all a bit dry so I put butter on the potato and melt the cheese to go on top.

Dinner Chops, gravy, vegetables and mashed potato for the man. I have one small chop trimmed of all fat, vegetables and SALAD. Impress myself with my willpower.

9pm I'm STARVING. Eat a packet of cheese and onion chips and half a packet of chocolate digestive biscuits.

Next morning: Step on scales, haven't lost an ounce. Give up writing everything down.

Have a look at this!

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The Ballad of Barry and Freda

Victoria Wood

I have been reading a biography of Victoria Wood who died much too early at the age of 62 in 2016. I'm not sure if she was at all well known outside of Britain but here she was a national treasure.

For those of you unfamiliar with her, she was a comedian - but so much more than that. She was a brilliant comic writer, a composer, pianist and author. Just to give you a flavour of her genius, here's one of her songs, The Ballad of Barry and Freda. I include the lyrics below, just in case you want to sing along!

The Ballad of Barry and Freda (Let's Do It)

Freda and Barry sat one night

The sky was clear. The stars were bright

The wind was soft. The moon was up

Freda drained her cocoa cup

She licked her lips. She felt sublime

She switched off Gardeners' Question Time

Barry cringed in fear and dread

As Freda grabbed his tie, and said:

Let's do it!

Let's do it

Do it while the mood is right!

I'm feeling

Appealing

I've really got an appetite

I'm on fire

With desire

I could handle half the tenors in a male voice choir

Let's do it!

Let's do it tonight!

But he said:

I can't do it

I don't believe in too much sex

This fashion

For passion

Turns us into nervous wrecks

No derision!

My decision

I'd rather watch The Spinners on the television

I can't do it

I can't do it tonight

So she said:

Let's do it!

Let's do it

Do it till our hearts go boom!

Go native

Creative

Living in the living room

This folly

Is jolly

Bend me over backwards on me Hostess trolley

Let's do it!

Let's do it tonight!

But he said:

I can't do it

Me 'eavy breathing days have gone

I'm older

Feel colder

It's other things that turn me on

I'm imploring:

I'm boring

Let me read this catalogue on vinyl flooring

I can't do it

I can't do it tonight

So she said:

Let's do it!

Let's do it

Have a crazy night of love!

I'll strip bare

I'll just wear

Stilettos and an oven glove

Don't starve a

Girl of a palaver

Dangle from the wardrobe in your Balaclava

Let's do it!

Let's do it tonight!

I can't do it

I know I'd only get it wrong

Don't angle

For me to dangle

Me arms 'ave never been that strong

Stop pouting

Stop shouting

You know I pulled a muscle when I did that grouting

I can't do it

I can't do it tonight

Let's do it!

Let's do it

Share a night of wild romance

Frenetic

Poetic!

This could be your last big chance

To quote Milton

To eat Stilton

To roll in gay abandon on the tufted Wilton

Let's do it!

Let's do it tonight!

I can't do it

I've got other little jobs on hand

Don't grouse

Around the house

I've got a busy evening planned

Stop nagging

I'm flagging

You know as well as I do that the pipes need lagging

I can't do it

I can't do it tonight

Let's do it!

Let's do it

While I'm really in the mood!

Three cheers!

It's years

Since I caught you even semi-nude

Get drastic

Gymnastic

Wear your baggy Y-fronts with the loose elastic

Let's do it!

Let's do it tonight!

I can't do it

I must refuse to get undressed

I feel silly

It's too chilly

To go without me thermal vest

Don't choose me

Don't use me

Me mother sent a note to say you must excuse me

I can't do it

I can't do it tonight

Let's do it!

I feel I absolutely must

I won't exempt you

Want to tempt you

Want to drive you mad with lust

No cautions

Just contortions!

Smear an avocado on me lower portions

Let's do it!

Let's do it tonight!

I can't do it

It's really not my cup of tea

I'm harassed

Embarrassed

I wish you hadn't picked on me

No barter

Non starter

Feel about as sensuous

As Jimmy Carter

I can't do it

I can't do it tonight!

Let's do it!

I really want to run amok

Let's wiggle

Let's jiggle

Let's really make the rafters rock

Be mighty

Be flighty

Come and melt the buttons on me flameproof nightie

Let's do it!

Let's do it tonight!

Let's do it!

I really want to rant and rave

Let's go

Cause I know

Just how I want you to behave:

Not bleakly

Not meekly

Beat me on the bottom with a Woman's Weekly

Let's do it!

Let's do it tonight!

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Raindrops Keep Falling On My Head

Cafe Culture

Things are slowly getting back to normal here in England. People can at last visit relatives, drink in a pub and go back to work. But there's one thing I will not do - unless forced to by misguided friends, and that's sit outside a cafe to drink my tea and nibble my scone (* cream first, jam second. Jam, I should tell my friends across the pond is what you call jelly).

I live in England, a very green and pleasant land. And why is it green and pleasant? Because it rains. A lot. In England it is raining, about to rain or threatening to rain. I live in the county of Devon, which without a hint of irony, the tourist board dubs "Sunny Devon". To be fair, it's not the rainiest part of England and it is one of the warmest. In fact, there's nowhere else I'd rather live.

From my house you can see Dartmoor in the distance. There is a local joke. If you can see Dartmoor clearly, it will soon rain. If you can't see Dartmoor clearly it IS raining! Dartmoor is a vast moorland with wild ponies, craggy landscape, tors, Neolithic tombs, Bronze Age stone circles and abandoned medieval farmhouses. Quite beautiful.

Rain clouds gather on Dartmoor

But enough about Dartmoor, here follows my experience of outside dining. You plonk yourself down on a damp plastic chair. The wind gets up as it's about to rain. Consequently, polystyrene containers blow about your feet and dust clings to the jam. Your dining companion, putting a brave face on it, says something like: "This reminds me of our holiday on the Costa del Sol." I grimace.

Then the inevitable happens, Raindrops start to fall. We scramble to gather up all our possessions - bags, tea, scones (cream first) and make a mad dash for inside the cafe. Everyone else outside has exactly the same idea. Elbows are employed to get a seat. We very, very slowly sip our tea and nibble our scones (cream first), eking out every mouthful as we wait for a break in the clouds.

Eventually the rain eases and we peel our damp bottoms from our chairs and RUN (well, it's more of a fast waddle in my case) back to the car.

Friend says, "That was lovely, wasn't it? We must do this again." I grimace.

* Back to that cream and jam thing. There is some friendly rivalry between Devon and our neighbouring county of Cornwall about which goes first on a scone, jam or cream. If you want to know more, read this Cream Teas: Cream or Jam First?

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Oh Happy Hydrangea!

My lovely neighbour, who is a brilliant gardener, has created a beautiful English country garden out of nothing. There is colour all year round, a fishpond and a vegetable plot.

There are arches with plants crawling around them and little paths leading to yet more horticultural delights. It has everything I aspire to have. I look across to her garden with envy.

She must look across at mine and wonder if a localised hurricane returns every evening. She's too kind to mention it and instead leaves runner beans and courgettes on my doorstep.

So I was quite pathetically delighted when today she told me she envied my hydrangea. Let me repeat that: SHE ENVIED MY HYDRANGEA!

I've been walking around on cloud nine all day! (I know...some people are easily pleased!)

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Just A Princess With Simple Tastes

Princess Margaret in Mauritius 1956

I am a simple English maid from a humble background so I had a little chuckle at how far removed my life has been from the higher echelons of society when I happened upon a recent article by a royal correspondent in a national newspaper

He was writing about Princess Margaret (for my friends from abroad who might not know, Princess Margaret, who died in 2002, was the Queen's sister). This royal correspondent told me the princess had “unexpectedly modest tastes”.

He backed up this assertion by quoting a recently-released document about the princess’s royal tour of Mauritius back in 1956.

The island’s governor was informed that Princess Margaret preferred “simple” meals, was not fond of either caviar or oysters and would rather drink wine than champagne.

I’m not sure how many British people were drinking wine with their meals in 1956, but not many, I’d wager.

Then, without a hint of irony, we are told: “Three or four courses (including cheese or fruit) for lunch, and five for dinner are quite sufficient.”

Quite sufficient? I should think so. Back in dear old Britain food rationing (because of the war) had ended only a couple of years before. By the time Princess Margaret was in Mauritius I expect lots of families were subsisting on meals like tripe and onions with bread and pork fat for a treat. And who among you, know what “sop” is? It was my father’s breakfast staple until he became “posh” and took to eating bread and jam!

For those who don’t know, sop was sugary tea poured over bread in a bowl and eaten with a spoon. It was quite a common dish in rural Devon, the internet tells me.

And, if you’re interested in words, sop, soup and supper all derive from the Latin suppa, “bread soaked in broth”. [Latin lesson over the day!]

I’ll bet a round of soggy bread that not a drop of sop ever passed Princess Margaret’s lips. I lived on a farm so I can’t pretend we ever went hungry. In fact, quite the opposite.

We may not have wine or five-course meals but in our own way we dined as well as any princess.

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Artistic Licence

George Braques

I thought I'd share this little anecdote for no other reason than it brought a smile to my face!

As young men the artists Georges Braque and Andre Derain shared a rather long studio and each operated at one end of the room.

They developed the habit of throwing things to each other and once they’d reached Olympic standard at hurling and catching any article regardless of shape, they worked out to throw a carafe full of water underarm the length of the room, spinning it backwards so that the water stayed in it.

At the other end of the room the recipient would judge the rotation exactly and would catch the carafe by the neck as it arrived.

Andre Derain

At the time it was common to be offered all sorts of wine in a restaurant, but it was difficult to get the waiter to bring water. One evening Derain dressed for dinner and entered the Cafe de Paris at the fashionable hour and ordered a meal and a carafe of water.

A few minutes later, after Derain’s water had arrived, Braque entered and sat at a table about the distance from Derain’s as existed between their easels in the studio. Braque ordered his meal and then stood up and said ‘This is monstrous. I’ve been sitting here for twenty minutes and I’ve asked for a glass of water and what do I get? Nothing!’

Those assembled were further astonished when Derain stood up and said ‘You want a carafe of water sir? Voila’ and he spun the full carafe over the heads of diners to Braque, who caught it perfectly, slowly poured himself a glass of water and flung the carafe back over the heads to Derain.

‘Thank you. sir,’ he said, and both painters sat down as if nothing had happened.

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Funny Olympic Tweets

Are you watching the Olympics? I'm gripped and really pleased Team GB is doing so well with the country currently sitting 6th in the medal table.

Not everyone is being deadly serious about the event, though (thank goodness!). Here are a few of my favourite tweets doing the rounds. I don't think they're all from this year's Olympics but they are still making me laugh!